Hi, we're Joe & Hailey.
Let us hunt down your wedding decor, gently used and for less.
Arches, vases, linens, lanterns, signs, all the things that make the room feel like yours. Couples use them for one day, then they sit in a garage. Send us your list and we'll find them for you.
Our reception wishlist
- ✓ gold hexagon arch found!
- ✓ 40 clear bud vases found!
- ✓ sage table runners ×12 found!
- ○ "Welcome" sign + easel
- ○ lanterns for the aisle
A little about us
Two newlyweds who'd love to help with yours.
We just got married, and planning it showed us how quickly the little things add up. Every centerpiece, every sign, every yard of fabric. And so much of it is sitting in someone's closet after one beautiful day.
So we started Twice Loved. You tell us what you're dreaming of, and the two of us go looking. We read every request ourselves, send you the best finds we can track down, and only charge a small fee if we find something you love.
Joe & Hailey
What we hunt for
Everything that makes the room feel like a wedding.
Big pieces, small details, and the stuff you forgot you'd need.
Arches & backdrops
Metal, wood, hexagon, floral walls, draping.
Centerpieces & vases
Bud vases, cylinders, risers, mirrors, by the dozen.
Candles & lanterns
Pillars, votives, LED candles, aisle lanterns.
Signs & easels
Welcome signs, seating charts, table numbers.
Linens & runners
Tablecloths, runners, napkins, chair sashes.
Table settings
Chargers, glassware, cake stands, dessert displays.
Lights & ambiance
String lights, fairy lights, marquee letters.
Florals & greenery
Faux bouquets, garlands, eucalyptus runners.
Ceremony details
Aisle runners, card boxes, guest books, tea sets.
Attire too, if you need it. Dresses, suits, veils and bridesmaid dresses are fair game, we just love the decor hunt most.
How it works
You dream it up, we go looking.
Send us your list
What you need, how many, your colors, your budget and your zip code.
We go hunting
We search Facebook Marketplace, local wedding resale groups, eBay and resale sites, then email you a shortlist with photos, prices and links.
You buy what you love
You buy straight from the seller. We never handle the money for the items, so there's nothing to worry about.
Planning the whole day?
Use the spreadsheet that ran our wedding.
We planned everything in one set of sheets: a master timeline with who does what, a schedule for every helper and vendor, the budget, and our decor split into zones. We cleaned it up and added the vendor list we forgot. It's called the Wedding Command Center.
- What's inside
- ✓ master timeline + jobs for everyone
- ✓ type a name, get their schedule
- ✓ vendor list + budget
- ✓ decor zones, setup + packing lists
What it costs
A small finder's fee, and only if we find something.
Like an arch, or a set of 40 vases. Up to 5 options to pick from.
Everything on your list in one search, with options for each piece.
If nothing fits your list and budget, you don't owe us a thing.
Send us your list
What are you looking for?
We'll read it ourselves and email you back with what we find, plus how to pay the finder's fee if you love it.
Good questions
Things couples ask us
How long does it take?
It depends on your list. Once we read your request, we'll tell you when to expect your shortlist.
How do I pay the finder's fee?
Only after we send your shortlist and you like what we found. We email you a PayPal link (paypal.me/loffredo0919). Choose "Goods and Services" so you're protected.
Do you sell the decor?
No. We find it and send you the links. You buy straight from the seller, online or in person.
What if something sells before I buy it?
Good finds go fast. Just tell us and we'll look for a replacement at no extra cost.
Is buying secondhand safe?
We'll share what to ask each seller. For local pickups, meet somewhere public, check the item first, and pay through the site's checkout when you can, never by wire or gift card.
Can you find things for cultural ceremonies?
Yes! Tea sets, ceremony décor, attire, just add them to your list.